Monday, December 28, 2009

Gifts opening on Christmas Eve 2009 with video

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December 25th 2009

GIFTS OPENING ON CHRISTMAS EVE

My brother used to hold big party on Christmas Eve but it was different this year. He had to wake up early for Blue Mountain to have a ski trip with his family and friends on Christmas day. Therefore he did not have big party on Christmas Eve. My daughter did not come back for Christmas. When he learned out that I had no party to go on Christmas Eve he invited my husband and me over for dinner and then to have the gifts opening with his family. He and his wife roasted a smallest size turkey and made some mash potatoes. I made some salad at home and brought over to his house. We had a small, simple Christmas Eve dinner together. The turkey was juicy and very delicious. Though it was the quietest Christmas dinner we had ever had I enjoyed it the most because I did not like to be around with many people and noisy.
As soon as the dinner was finished his daughter could hardly wait for the exciting moment of opening her gifts. She kept nagging for it. To make her happy we cleaned up the table and did the dishes as quickly as possible. Most of the gifts were for her. She kept opening one after the other with a lot of fun and joys. My husband kept taking the pictures for her. Four of us sat there watching her and enjoyed the moment of entertainment performed by her only. Very unexpectedly I found the bag of tea that my sister from Toronto kept looking for it when she gave me the gift. She was mistakenly put it into the gift bag that she gave it to my brother’s family. It looks like that whatever belongs to me will be in my possession sooner or later.
Thanks for my brother’s generous invitation we were able to spend the Christmas Eve joyfully with his family. After having all of the gifts opened we left early to let them get ready for the ski trip. It was a wonderful Christmas Eve for us.





MERRY CHRISTMAS and A HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Surprises惊喜

December 23rd 2009

SURPRISES

My sister, her husband and daughter came to Windsor to visit us for 2 days before Christmas yesterday. We went out for a family union dinner in a Chinese restaurant. My daughter will not come home for Christmas but she was very thoughtful of sending gifts to her big and little cousins. She sent them to me. I split the gifts up basing on her list and put them into small gift bags to be handed out. Since all of her cousins were present except one I gave the gifts out to them. I brought them big SURPRISE by delivering the gifts to them. It was very impressive because the gifts came all the way from Vancouver.
Then came another SURPRISE. My niece’s boy friend stood up and said that he had an important announcement to make. I did not bring the camera with me so we missed the chance of recording his speech which was short but touching. In the speech he told us that he had been dating with her for 9 years, that it was time for him to have their relationship to be announced publicly as for the engagement, that they were going to tie up the knot in the year 2011. She is the first one to announce to get married in the next generation in our big family. It is a piece of very exciting good news. I sincerely congratulate them and wish them all the best for the years to come.
The food was not that good but we had a good time in a small family gathering with SURPRISES to cheer us up before Christmas. It was great.

惊喜

昨天,大姐一家人,从多伦多开车回温莎看望我们。不会多呆,而只停留两天。然后,圣诞前夕,赶回多伦多去。昨晚,约好到餐馆去吃晚饭。女儿不回来过节,但是,很有心意,把礼物寄回来给我,并且,吩咐我把它们分送给亲戚。按照她的指示,把礼物放进小小的礼物袋去。晚饭前,女儿的全部老表都到来的时候,把礼物送出去给他们。对他们来说,是一件非常惊喜的事,因为,礼物是从遥远的温哥华邮寄回来的。礼物,虽然,不大、不多,意义重大,非常珍贵。
跟着,来了第二个惊喜。大哥的大女儿的男友,站起来对大家说,有重要的事项宣布。大家马上静下来,很严肃地听他的求婚宣言。内容是他们已经认识了有九年之久,该是时候公开他们的关系,先宣布订婚,然后,计划在二零一一年结婚。大家听完后,都很兴奋、感动,并诚恳地恭喜他们,希望他们永远地一块儿愉快地生活。在我们的大家庭中,下一代的小朋友中,她可算是第一位宣布要结婚。
晚饭的聚会,虽然,很短,菜肴不是很可口,但是,大家都很开心一起度过圣诞前的家庭大团圆,而且,也有惊喜助兴,可算不错。

Video of birthday celebrations in 2009

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Monday, December 21, 2009

First snow in Winter 2009 入冬第一场雪











May 19 2009

FIRST SNOW IN WINTER 2009

Snow used to come in November each year but it was a bit late this year. There was a lot of snow in other parts of the country and around the world. I kept waiting and waiting but snow was not willing to fall in our area. Without its arrival I was able to enjoy my walk outside for more than a month in comparing to the previous years. The cold winter came early by the end of October but without snow fall until this morning when I woke up looking out from my window. It was covered with soft white snow which brought me the feeling that Christmas was already here. I hate cold weather but I love snow. It looks nice and cheerful. Though its arrival limits my outdoor activity and brings me a lot of inconvenience I still love watching it snow and welcome its coming.

入冬第一场白雪

今年的冬天来得比较早,大概在十月底,比往年寒冷,但是,没有下雪。因此,入冬后,也可以在户外步行。往年,十一月份开始下雪,但是,今年的雪来得迟了一点。虽然,很多地方早已经下雪,我们住的地区,迟迟都看不到下雪。很失望,天天都在等待。终于,今天,早上起床的时候,往窗口看出去,看到了白雪。地上、屋顶、街道。到处都布满白雪。万分喜悦,白雪带来圣诞的气氛。不喜欢寒冷天气的我,但是,很爱看到下雪的景色。它很美、很优雅、很轻快、很逗人喜欢。虽然,下雪带来给我无数的不便,但是,我仍然乐意地迎接它的到来,欣赏白雪轻轻地飘下,白雪纷飞的景色。

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Video of my brother's birthday 2009

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Video of my daughter's convocation 2009

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Sunday, December 13, 2009

Annual blood test 验血报告

December 09 2009

ANNUAL BLOOD TEST

I had my blood test annually a week ago. The nurse in my family doctor’s office gave
me a call on Monday that he would like to see me about the blood test result Therefore I booked the appointment to see him yesterday afternoon. The matter worried me for the whole day and night. I kept worrying about the problem with blood test. There must be something serious. Otherwise he would not have to make me seeing him.
My heart kept beating fast when I stepped in his office yesterday. I was very nervous and anxious. I did not wait for him to tell me but asked him as soon as I sat down on the chair in his office.
“Is it very bad news about the blood test?” I asked him.
“Not really. But you have to take pills. The report shows that your vitamin D is very low. Your cholesterol is high. It rises from 4.2 to 5.8. The blood sugar is also high. It is from 6.3 to 6.8. The rest of the report is fine” he read the report to me.
I was very relaxed hearing it. There was actually nothing serious about the blood test. My husband and many other friends and relatives took vitamin D after they had the annual blood test last year. Mine was fine last year but low this year. My cholesterol was low last time when I had the blood test three months ago because I took pills. I had to be on the pills again. My blood sugar was high but it did not reach the level of taking the pill to control it. I asked him how to lower my blood sugar because I had been very careful with my sugar intake.
“What do you eat daily?” he asked me.
“I had a bowl of cereal with soy bean milk for breakfast, had the left over of food for lunch, and a bowl of rice for dinner with plenty of vegetable and small portion of meat or fish” I told him.
“You should replace the cereal with oatmeal, cut down with the rice to half and have more vegetable to fill up your stomach. Rice or noodle is very high in sugar. You should try to change your habit of eating for 3 months. If the sugar level is down then you do not have to take pills. I give you one more chance” he talked to me generously with smiles.
“Do not be stressful with the report. People at your age used to have this problem. It is nothing to worry about because it is not deadly but there is way to control it” he added as I walked out of his office.
I used to have three bowls or more of rice daily when I was young. I used to have a lot of meat, chunk food and so on but my body could handle them all. I was healthy and never got sick except catching a cold once in while. There are many problems with my health at my age now. No matter how careful I am in watching the food that I eat my body still can not function properly. It issues the signal to me in the blood test report that there is something going on wrongly in me that I never feel it. It needs to be corrected and well taken care of to avoid the serious problem like heart attack, diabetes, lost of bone density and so on later on. Taking the pills and watching the intake of healthy food are just for the prevention because I am in the process of aging just like an old car which required inspection and repair often.
Though I feel well I keep having the annual blood test to monitor my health to detect any problem with it as soon as possible. I will have faith in my family doctor and follow his instruction to correct whatever problem that he finds. I have to face the fact that I am getting old and need help. Aging is the process that one must go through when he reaches a certain age. I have to live with it and be happy with reality.

二零零九年十二月九日


验血报告


十年前开始,每年都去给抽血化验。一个星期前,去化验室把血抽出做化验。前天,家庭医生的医务所,来电话告诉我,医生要见我有关验血的报告。预约好,昨天下午去会见医生。接过电话后,一直很忐忑不安。身体肯定出了问题,医生才要见我。
进入医务所的办公室的时候,心跳得很厉害。很紧张、着急,没有等到医生开口说话,已经先发出提问。
“验血出来的报告很糟糕,对吗?”我问他。
“不算很差,但是,要吃药哦。维他命D很低,胆固醇高了——从4.2 升到5.8,血糖也比较高——从6.3升到6.8。其它的,全都合格”他把报告内容给我讲解。
听后,轻松好多。只是老毛病。去年,先生以及很多亲戚朋友,已经开始服用维他命D。我可算迟了一年后才要服用。三个月前,胆固醇低,因为服用胆固醇药。把胆固醇药停止服用三个月,问题又出现。看来要继续地服用它。血糖一直都算比较高,但是,没有到达要用药物来作出控制。
“已经把饮食的习惯改变很多,把含有糖分的食物减少进食,有什么办法再加以改善?”我顺口向他请教。
“你每天吃的东西是什么?”他问我。
“早餐,吃一碗cereal加纯豆浆;午餐,把剩下来的旧菜加热吃掉;晚饭,吃一碗白米饭以及大量的青菜、小量的肉类、鱼等”我告诉他。
“试把麦片代替cereal,不是方便麦片而要煮那种,把白米饭减少一半,多吃青菜、豆腐等食物来把肚子填饱。白米饭、米粉、面条含糖分比较高,少吃为佳。把饮食的习惯再改变一下,三个月后,再抽血化验。假如,效果不得以改善,才把药方开给你。给你多一次机会”带着幽默、慷慨的语气跟我说。
“不要过分忧虑,到了这个年纪,大部分人都会患上了这些小毛病。它们不会致命,还有药物把它们控制。放心吧!”当我离开的时候,跟我说了几句安慰话。
以前,还年轻的时候,每天进食三碗大米饭以上、很多肉类、不健康的食物等等,但是,身体可以把它们全部处理得很妥当,健康没事。现在,懂得注意卫生、健康饮食,反而身体出现了那么多的问题。年纪大,机能退化,毛病多多。正如好像一部旧的汽车,需要多加以检查、保养,才能开得动。胆固醇高、血糖高、维他命D底等的现象,不会感觉出来。当它们发展到某一个程度的时候,会导致心脏病、糖尿病、骨质疏松等致命的病例。验血,可以看到身体的小毛病,把生活习惯加以改善,把药物适当地服用,把它们尽早控制,防止它们继续地恶化,发展成为致命、无药可救的大病。
虽然,身体健康,没有感到不适,依然按照惯例,每年去把血抽出做化验。那是明智的做法。验血,可以检查出小毛病。然后,把它们加以处理。免得,致命的大病形成。随着年纪日益增大,身体各方面的机能日益退化,要寻求药物来作补救。对医生,要有一定的信任、合作,听从他的指示,把身体调理好。要面对现实。人一定会变老,不能够永远地年轻。药物是老年人的同伴。要服用它们的时候,不要带着抗拒、闷闷不乐的心情,而开开心心地服用它们。只有这样,才能够活得轻松、快乐。